It’s easy to get stuck in a rut when it comes to your sex life, you may both still be enjoying it and getting plenty of orgasms, but maybe it’s just missing a little bit of excitement.
There are very simple things you can do to inject some fun into your sex life and spice it up a little, they don’t have to be daunting or embarrassing, but little changes can make a big difference to how you both feel.
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Move away from the regular
If you’re having sex time and time again in the same place, on the couch or in the bed, switch it up Move into the bathroom or on the kitchen counter. A change of scenery can make a big difference. If you’re stuck for space or getting time alone, get a hotel room for the night. Just one night can make a big difference to how you both feel about your sex lives.
Get excited throughout the day
If you know you’re going to be having sex later on in the evening, send a flirty text in the morning or afternoon while they’re at work. It doesn’t have to be explicit, just something that will get the pulse racing a little and will make the anticipation of the evening’s activities just that more excitable.
It could be something like, ‘Don’t work to hard today... you’ll need your energy for later.’
Have a quickie
We all know that sex can be over quite quickly, so if you’re pressed for time why not get it moving quickly? Have one first thing in the morning, it’s likely to set you up perfectly for the day ahead, and chances are you’ll be excited throughout the day and want to keep on going when you get home in the evening.
Add some props
We’re not talking something too extravagant, just something as simple as a blindfold will add another dimension to your sex life. Take turns in wearing it and enjoy spending time exploring each other’s body.